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Reflecting on What Do I Really Want?
A simple question from a friend stopped me: What does Noah want?
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What 44-Degree Water Taught Me About Noise
I tried a “fire and ice” routine and discovered how extreme heat and cold can briefly silence mental noise.
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When the Body Speaks – CST and SER
I went in for a simple massage and walked out with a new language for my body.
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Keeping the Circle Small
A small circle isn’t about shutting people out, it’s about letting the right people in.
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The Meaning We Create, Again and Again
Real ikigai isn’t a destination. It’s the pulse beneath the day.
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I’m Noah Vale.
I’m a “writer” living somewhere between breaking and becoming. After years of wrestling with anxiety, burnout, and the gap between who I was and who I wanted to be, I started The Violin in Me as a place to stay honest with myself.
Here, I write about mental health, therapy, marriage, fatherhood, and the small, quiet moments that often go unnoticed in highlight reels. I’m not offering advice or clean answers – just real stories from someone trying to stay a little more in tune with his own heart and mind.

The Journey of Self-Discovery
This space is for the thoughts we don’t always say out loud. Through anonymous, honest essays and reflections, I explore fear, grief, hope, and the slow work of becoming more myself. If any of it resonates, you’re welcome to walk alongside me—one honest moment at a time.




